Tuesday, August 21, 2007

You are who you want to be

fred smith was a businessman, a church leader and a mentor to countless other christian leaders. he was an author and a speaker who has passed on his wisdom and sage advice to multiple generations. he died this past week at the age of 91. even in his advanced age, he was still writing and operating a web site call "breakfast with fred"...inspiring a new generation of church leaders to excellence.

i would like to grow old as he has. here is a quote that he wrote recently:

I have learned that people are the way they are because they want to be that way. Now, I haven't always believed this. In fact, when I started out in life I wanted to be a social worker and I became extremely disillusioned with people. Now I am totally convinced that each of us is the way we are because we want to be that way. We rationalize and give all kinds of reasons that this isn't true, but bottom line ---you are choosing to be who you are. When you have an opportunity to change and you don't take it, you are deciding to be who you are. And, of course, when you grow through challenging yourself, you are becoming who you want to be. People want to be the way they are.

do you agree? after all my years of pastoring, counseling, people helping, team building and watching people become the people they are, i am convinced that fred is right. i realize that our sinful nature and the battle of the inner man that paul writes about in romans 7 is a profound and powerful mystery, but this simple quote is legitimate and real. raw...but real.

this is one of the greatest quotes...and greatest truths...of all time.

2 comments:

Anonymous said...

I think I agree. Even if life's circumstances are conspiring against me, I can choose joy and to rise above them in my thoughts, etc. Does that make sense?

Binxy said...

If I'm "too busy" - I've chosen that lifestyle.

If I'm "too stressed" - I've set up my life in such a way to cause stress and cut off avenues to relieve it.

If I'm drained - its because I let myself get that way.

If I'm frustrated with God - it's not Him; its me. My expectations are off, my perspectives are self-focused and I just don't get the real purpose why I am here one more day for a reason greater than being eeyore's 1st cousin.

You are who you want to be - and the motto each of us should live out day to day is "Today, God, make me want to be something renewed and renewable."